Making a Not-to-do List

Change begins with making a place for the new. It's not about putting the new on the already existing to-do list. That's a recipe for misery! Looking at the to-do list with determination to remove the unnecessary is the first step to change. However, it's also not about removing something we love just because it seems "unnecessary." Although it's hard to get past the voice in our heads that says what we "should" do, remember that the point is to build the life of our dreams. Removing what we love from our lives is NOT the first step. Instead, look for stuff we don't love and find ways to remove that!